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		<title>Out of the Comfort Zone</title>
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					<description><![CDATA[Over the last couple of books, I have subtly taken my writing in a slightly different direction. More so with my latest novel, just released, The New Beginnings Coffee Club. I am exploring difficult issues, putting more emotion into my...]]></description>
										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Over the last couple of books, I have subtly taken my writing in a slightly different direction. More so with my latest novel, just released, <a href="https://www.amazon.co.uk/New-Beginnings-Coffee-Club-feel-good-ebook/dp/B06XQXB4JY/ref=pd_ecc_rvi_1">The New Beginnings Coffee Club.</a> I am exploring difficult issues, putting more emotion into my work &#8211; whilst hopefully, at the same time, retaining my signature humour. It&#8217;s early days, but reviews have so far have bowled me over and I&#8217;m thrilled that many readers have picked up on this change and loved it.</p>
<p>However, I&#8217;ll admit it&#8217;s not been easy. My agent and editor have both helped. I&#8217;m a rather emotional person in real life (just ask my long-suffering husband!) but for some reason this doesn&#8217;t always transfer to the page. So I&#8217;ve had to push myself. I&#8217;ve had to come out of my comfort zone.  I&#8217;ve always been wary of becoming complacent and letting my writing stagnate but it can be scary trying something different. What if I fail?</p>
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<p>It&#8217;s a bit like cooking, as a parent. You discover your children&#8217;s favourite dishes. To please them, you cook them regularly. Serve up the same seven meals every week. Eventually the inevitable happens &#8211; what was once special and unique runs the risk of becoming predictable to them, if you carry on in the same manner.</p>
<p>So, for want of a better analogy (well, it had to be food-related in my world!) I&#8217;m trying to avoid that by creating new recipes, with more unusual flavours, and a deeper flavour. This requires more effort. More thought. More time. It&#8217;s a risk. Some readers may prefer what they are used to. But my motto has always been if we don&#8217;t take risks in life, what&#8217;s the point?</p>
<p>When I look back over my own life, every time I&#8217;ve stepped out of my comfort zone it&#8217;s been terrifying. Yet those moments have led to unforgettable experiences that have helped me grow as a person. Like when I moved to France and worked at Disneyland Paris. Or when I got pregnant and gave birth to my children. There was the time I trained and completed a half-marathon. I learnt meditation. These challenges don&#8217;t have to be on a grand scale. Whether your challenge is joining a club to make new friends or changing jobs, it&#8217;s helping you achieve things you never thought possible.</p>
<p>A big one for me was signing a publishing deal. I&#8217;d loved being a stay-at-home mum for the previous sixteen years, so you can imagine how I felt attending my first fancy author party or visiting my publisher in London for a meeting.</p>
<p>Yet I got through it. I left my comfort zone. I realised that, whatever they were, dreams could come true. I&#8217;m currently undertaking a twelve week course outside of the writing world, which will conclude with twenty-four separate hours of supervised practical. It&#8217;s scary but as each week passes I am growing in self-confidence and discovering different facets of my personality. I love the quote, below, by Simon Le Bon of Duran Duran (for those of you who remember the Eighties <img src="https://s.w.org/images/core/emoji/17.0.2/72x72/1f642.png" alt="🙂" class="wp-smiley" style="height: 1em; max-height: 1em;" /> ).</p>
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<p>Jenny, the heroine of <a href="https://www.amazon.co.uk/New-Beginnings-Coffee-Club-feel-good-ebook/dp/B06XQXB4JY/ref=pd_ecc_rvi_1">The New Beginnings Coffee Club</a>, is forced out of her comfort zone, when her world comes crashing down around her ears. It&#8217;s a frightening situation, when change is forced upon you. Courage is needed, to grasp the situation with both hands, and see it as a starting point and not an end. To realise that transitory discomfort might end up making you the person life always intended you to be.</p>
<p>But some of us have the <em>choice</em> to step out of our comfort zone, so why not take a deep breath and do that with your writing? Whether that means finally being brave enough to submit your work &#8211; or to really challenge your craft if you are already established. Or to do that author talk. There is nothing to lose as you&#8217;ll learn something from the experience and use it to find success elsewhere. After years of getting rejections for my novels, I stepped out of my comfort zone to try  my hand at short stories. Rejections came in but feedback helped me improve. I eventually sold dozens. This boosted my self-esteem. Gave me much needed validation and confidence. All of this contributed towards me finally getting that novel deal.</p>
<p>Go on. Open the door. And take a bold step forwards. You can do it.</p>
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